{"id":6189,"date":"2025-12-10T22:36:58","date_gmt":"2025-12-10T22:36:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/2025\/02\/25\/write-of-passage-we-write-we-win\/"},"modified":"2025-12-10T22:36:58","modified_gmt":"2025-12-10T22:36:58","slug":"write-of-passage-we-write-we-win","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/2025\/12\/10\/write-of-passage-we-write-we-win\/","title":{"rendered":"Write of Passage: We Write, We Win"},"content":{"rendered":"<!--[if lt IE 9]><script>document.createElement('audio');<\/script><![endif]-->\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-6189-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/api.substack.com\/feed\/podcast\/157791232\/5bd139cb18dab01a0e52cf2e96f1a32e.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/api.substack.com\/feed\/podcast\/157791232\/5bd139cb18dab01a0e52cf2e96f1a32e.mp3\">https:\/\/api.substack.com\/feed\/podcast\/157791232\/5bd139cb18dab01a0e52cf2e96f1a32e.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>I started writing essays because my mind battled deep disappointment over the state of division in my country. My consciousness is bias, tragically etched with memories of when character mattered. Remember when we all wanted to be president? I remember holding civic medals I\u2019d won in elementary and high school. I recall lifting people up on pedestals and telling younger versions of ourselves, &#8220;That\u2019s who I want to be. That\u2019s who I want to emulate when we grow up.&#8221;<\/p><div id=\"vanes-321226413\" class=\"vanes-content vanes-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-top: 2px;margin-right: 2px;margin-bottom: 2px;margin-left: 2px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/vanessariley.com\/fireswordandsea.htm\" aria-label=\"Fire Sword &amp; Sea\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?fit=1706%2C2560&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Fire Sword &amp; Sea\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?w=1706&ssl=1 1706w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=200%2C300&ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=683%2C1024&ssl=1 683w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1152&ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C1536&ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=1365%2C2048&ssl=1 1365w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?w=1280&ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" width=\"569\" height=\"853\"   \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><p>Heroes of the Haitian War \u2014Empress Marie Claire, Warrior Gran Toya &#8211; Art by Tonya Engle for William Morrow\u2014<em>Sister Mother Warrior<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>That sentiment is gone. People in power are deeply flawed, or their flaws are more obvious. And it\u2019s not just politicians. We look at sports heroes and entertainers and see waves of brokenness\u2014people performing for show, lacking integrity, and becoming poster children of bad behavior. That is why authenticity feels so refreshing, why it can grip the zeitgeist of a nation and have us talking about it, creating YouTube videos and Subtacks on the subject, even spinning reels and threads\u2014finding more ways to tap into our fount of creativity.<\/p>\n<p>We are hungry for authenticity, for authentic creation.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I\u2019m not advocating for perfection. Every writer knows the pitfalls of striving for perfection. We wrestle with word choice, sentence structure, even the order of ideas. We can edit something so many times that our original vision becomes unrecognizable. Yet, we push forward because the act of creating is essential. It\u2019s the breath in an artist\u2019s lungs.<\/p>\n<p>Our better angels\u2014our novels of truth, our canvases of color, our songs of freedom, our quilts of existence, our visuals of life\u2014are needed more than ever. We are hungry for authenticity, for authentic creation.<\/p>\n<p>Our appetites are satiated in low-calorie burns. Scrolling for kicks, laughs, angry takes, and escape is common. But social media, the hellscape that it is, can be a respite or a drug. And I must say, I am confused about the self-induced stupor of tearful videos of people who voted against their own interests, now seeking the world\u2019s sympathy as they grapple with consequences\u2014lost jobs, lost funding, lost farms, and lost hopes. It\u2019s painful to watch. It\u2019s also jarring to see them admit that this consequence is only a problem now because they suffer. I did a podcast about the loss of empathy. I just didn\u2019t expect an equivalent rise in blindness to FAFO.<\/p>\n<p>I wish harm on no one, but these folks are putting themselves and their business out there and wonder why they are being mocked. Empathy and sympathy need to be learned and earned before they can be demanded from others.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, here we are\u2014still divided, still finding out. We could sulk. We could laugh. We could cry. But I believe the better thing to do is to keep moving forward. That\u2019s how we\u2014the collective, those of like minds, and even new converts to humanity\u2014win. Everyone, we can win. We will win.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a scene I wrote in <em>Sister Mother Warrior<\/em>\u2014the lead-up to the Battle of Verti\u00e8res, the drive to push the French out which ended the Haitian Revolution, this is a snippet of the audio performed by Adjoa Andoh and Robin Miles:<\/p>\n<p><em>Staking the flagpole in the ground, he (Jean-Jacques Dessalines) stopped and looked out at his army. \u201cThey divide, but we are consolidated, one family. And this gives us victory&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><em>Then he gave the signal and pointed us to the hills. \u201cOnward! We will win!\u201d The battle cry of Nosakhere, \u201cM\u00ec nan du d\u00e9ji! We will win!\u201d was music to my ears. Women and men cried out in all the mother tongues of the people born here and those stolen from Africa.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cYebedi kunim,\u201d Twi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cA yoo \u1e63\u1eb9gun,\u201d Yoruba.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cNou pral genyen,\u201d Krey\u00f2l.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cNous gagnerons,\u201d French.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cM\u00ec nan du d\u00e9ji,\u201d blessed Fon.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I love that scene\u2014people of all races and nationalities gathering to defeat their common oppressors. Unified they drove the French from Haiti. It took everyone. In America, it will take all of us to win.<\/p>\n<p>The True Fight<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re not fighting with weapons of war\u2014guns and tanks. We are fighting for minds. The power to unlock thought and passion is creation. How we got here doesn\u2019t matter. Whether orderly or chaotic, it\u2019s not about the process\u2014it\u2019s about the product. What are you making with the time you were given?<\/p>\n<p>The battles can be as small as saving your money by avoiding fast fashion and shopping your closet. Eating and talking about life around the kitchen table instead of eating out. Supporting your library by using it and checking out books by your favorite authors is an act of resistance.<\/p>\n<p>For those who harness their creative genes, making something, delivering art is the ultimate act of resistance. Creating ignites the brain, releasing endorphins and unlocking resilience. Instead of dwelling on despair, we must tap into our inner artist, writer, and creator to make magic in the medium of our choosing. I want this period of time to be a rebirth or renaissance for folk arts, for kitchen experimentation, for the novels we will talk about for the next seventy years.<\/p>\n<p>For every creator out there, I know it feels difficult to make art right now. It feels worse when you know you did your part to keep the world from being set on fire. I often think of my farming grandparents, who lived in the Jim Crow South, educated eight children, and bought over 400 acres of land with mere pennies. If they could plant so many seeds in the face of lynchings, why are we letting fear of people who whine at the first moment of heat or being stoned by pea soup cause us despair? No one should keep us from doing what we must. No one.<\/p>\n<p>History proves that perseverance defies expectations:<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Gran Toya led troops in hand-to-hand combat in her 60s during the Haitian Revolution.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Fauja Singh began running marathons at 89, setting records in his 100s.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Ray Kroc turned McDonald&#8217;s into a global empire in his 50s.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Diana Nyad swam from Cuba to Florida at 64 after multiple failed attempts.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Faith Ringgold gained major recognition for her story quilts in her 50s.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Cicely Tyson was told she wouldn\u2019t make it because of her dark skin; she won a Tony at 88 and worked until her passing at 96.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Morgan Freeman became a household name in <em>Driving Miss Daisy<\/em> at nearly 50.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Samuel L. Jackson landed <em>Pulp Fiction<\/em> at 46 after years of struggling with his career. Our Uncle Sam is now one of the highest grossing actors in Hollywood.<\/p>\n<p>And, of course, there are the writers I\u2019ve spoken about:<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Toni Morrison published <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/the-bluest-eye-toni-morrison\/8492901?ean=9780307278449&#038;next=t&#038;next=t\"><em>The Bluest Eye <\/em><\/a>at 39 and won the Nobel Prize in Literature at 62.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Maya Angelou published <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/i-know-why-the-caged-bird-sings-maya-angelou\/7694405?ean=9780345514400&#038;next=t&#038;next=t\"><em>I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings <\/em><\/a>at 41 and became a literary icon.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 Octavia Butler faced rejection for years before breaking through in sci-fi in her 40s.<\/p>\n<p>To every creator, hear my voice: Grab your paper, pens, keyboards, fruits, spices, fabrics, glues, paints, resins, threads\u2014whatever you have\u2014and birth a miracle. Create. Art is the first and last sign of resistance.<\/p>\n<p>The work isn\u2019t done. We resist by creating. My art\u2014my words\u2014exist to empower Black women, foster sisterhood, and restore the world to a place where we are our brothers\u2019 and sisters\u2019 keepers. The ancestors say we will win. I believe them, and I believe in us.<\/p>\n<p>To read about inspiration and resistance:<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/letters-to-a-young-artist-straight-up-advice-on-making-a-life-in-the-arts-for-actors-performers-writers-and-artists-of-every-kind-anna-deavere-smith\/7829317?ean=9781400032389&#038;next=t&#038;next=t\"><em>Letters to a Young Artist <\/em><\/a>by Anna Deavere Smith \u2013 A guide to creativity and resilience in the arts.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/just-as-i-am-a-memoir-cicely-tyson\/14660043?ean=9780062931061&#038;next=t&#038;next=t\"><em>Just as I Am <\/em><\/a>by Cicely Tyson \u2013 The legendary actress\u2019s memoir, chronicling her journey as a Black woman in Hollywood.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/i-know-why-the-caged-bird-sings-maya-angelou\/7694405?ean=9780345514400&#038;next=t&#038;next=t\"><em>I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings <\/em><\/a>by Maya Angelou \u2013 A deeply personal story of overcoming hardship through art and voice.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/sister-mother-warrior-vanessa-riley\/17445709?ean=9780063073555&#038;next=t&#038;next=t\"><em>Sister Mother Warrior <\/em><\/a>by Vanessa Riley \u2013 A novel about the real women behind the Haitian Revolution, embodying resilience and leadership.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/wayward-lives-beautiful-experiments-intimate-histories-of-riotous-black-girls-troublesome-women-and-queer-radicals-saidiya-hartman\/8777979?ean=9780393357622&#038;next=t&#038;next=t\"><em>Wayward Lives, Beautiful Experiments <\/em><\/a>by Saidiya Hartman \u2013 A history of Black women who lived on their own terms in the early 20th century.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/barracoon-the-story-of-the-last-black-cargo-zora-neale-hurston\/18733101?ean=9780062748218&#038;next=t&#038;next=t\"><em>Barracoon: The Story of the Last &#8220;Black Cargo<\/em><\/a><em>&#8220;<\/em> by Zora Neale Hurston \u2013 A firsthand account of survival and resilience from one of the last known survivors of the transatlantic slave trade.<\/p>\n<p>Show notes include a list of the books mentioned in this broadcast. This week, I&#8217;m highlighting <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/shop\/shopthebookworm\">The Book Worm Bookshop<\/a> through <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/shop\/shopthebookworm\">Bookshop.org<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>This is a public episode. If you&#8217;d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href=\"https:\/\/vanessariley.substack.com\/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#038;utm_campaign=CTA_2\">vanessariley.substack.com\/subscribe<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"rop\"><small>Originally posted 2025-02-25 14:10:00. <\/small><\/p><div id=\"vanes-1577618129\" class=\"vanes-after-content vanes-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-top: 3px;margin-right: 3px;margin-bottom: 3px;margin-left: 3px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?fit=1080%2C1350&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Listen to the Write of Passage Weekly Podcast\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?w=1080&ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?resize=240%2C300&ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?resize=819%2C1024&ssl=1 819w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?resize=768%2C960&ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" width=\"540\" height=\"675\"   \/><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I started writing essays because my mind battled deep disappointment over the state of division in my country. 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