{"id":3608,"date":"2026-02-21T20:12:19","date_gmt":"2026-02-21T20:12:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christianregency.com\/blog\/?p=3608"},"modified":"2026-02-21T20:12:19","modified_gmt":"2026-02-21T20:12:19","slug":"a-proper-marriage-a-traditional-regency-reviewed-by-vanessa-riley","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/2026\/02\/21\/a-proper-marriage-a-traditional-regency-reviewed-by-vanessa-riley\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;A Proper Marriage&#8221;  A Traditional Regency Reviewed by Vanessa Riley"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was introduced to Modern Regencies, you know the ones written by after Austen, Heyer and Veryan while in college. Nothing I liked more than to unwind with a witty, Regency with everything on the line in the story after calculus.<\/p><div id=\"vanes-3078247026\" class=\"vanes-content vanes-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-top: 2px;margin-right: 2px;margin-bottom: 2px;margin-left: 2px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/vanessariley.com\/fireswordandsea.htm\" aria-label=\"Fire Sword &amp; Sea\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?fit=1706%2C2560&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Fire Sword &amp; Sea\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?w=1706&ssl=1 1706w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=200%2C300&ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=683%2C1024&ssl=1 683w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1152&ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C1536&ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?resize=1365%2C2048&ssl=1 1365w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/FireSwordSea_HC-scaled.jpg?w=1280&ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" width=\"569\" height=\"853\"   \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>One novel, <i>A Proper Marriage<\/i> by Debbie Raleigh is one of my favorites. I reread it each year, at least once.<a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianregency.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/A-Proper-Marriage.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-3613\" alt=\"A Proper Marriage\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianregency.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/A-Proper-Marriage-179x300.jpg?resize=179%2C300\" width=\"179\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/A-Proper-Marriage.jpg?resize=179%2C300&amp;ssl=1 179w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/A-Proper-Marriage.jpg?w=284&amp;ssl=1 284w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 179px) 100vw, 179px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s not to love about <i>A Proper Marriage<\/i>. <strong>First, the hero and heroine are married, to each other.<\/strong> Not a marriage of convenience (those are great) or gun-induced wedding from a compromise, but an arranged marriage one year in between noted war scholar, Adam Drake and the formerly free-spirit, Adele Morrow.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s Adam explaining to Vicar Humbly, the man who wed the two, the problem:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Adam winced in spite of himself. &#8220;No, I made very certain before we wed that she understood I would not tolerate the scandalous behavior of her parents,&#8221; he admitted. &#8220;I made a precise list of what I expected in my bride. I even chose her wardrobe to ensure she would not be an embarrassment when we arrived in London.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And Addy agreed to this list?&#8221; he (Humbly) at last demanded in carefully bland tones.<\/p>\n<p>Adam waved a restless hand. &#8220;What choice did she have? Her parents had managed to squander their fortune years ago and only survived in the knowledge they would receive a settlement when Addy and I wed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ah.&#8221; The Vicar nodded in a knowing manner. &#8220;Well, you should be pleased. Addy has become a most proper lady.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes, I should be delighted,&#8221; Adam agreed grimly.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But you are not?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Adam polished off the brandy in a single gulp. He thought of the months with Addy in his home. No, he was not bloody well delighted.\u00a0 No man would be delighted to possess a shadow that slipped from his grasp whenever he reached out to take hold.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It is not pleasant to live with a woman who is clearly miserable,&#8221; he conceded with a pained grimace.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Second a smart but bored heroine:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s Addy dealing with a rake.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Addy reached out to reclaim her fan. &#8220;I am sensible enough to know you are a reprehensible rake! If you wish to polish your fatal charms you should choose a more gullible victim.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You have it wrong,&#8221; he (Barclay, the rake) protested. &#8220;I have been felled by your beauty.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She rolled her eyes heavenward, but before she could take him to task for his foolishness, a sudden shadow fell over her.<\/p>\n<p>A familiar tingle of awareness rushed through her and slowly she turned to confront the glittering gaze of her husband.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Third, real arguments<\/strong> about cross-purposed souls with the richness of history, duty, and commitment that you don&#8217;t always find with unmarried couples.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>He (Adam) had thoroughly ruined her evening and worse, he had wounded her pride with his blunt confession he did not trust her.<\/p>\n<p>Dash it all. It had been uncomfortable enough living with Adam in a state of polite, frozen courtesy. She might have disliked guarding her every word and being abandoned for hours in this great tomb of a house, but at least she did not have to worry over sudden squabbles and sharp words that seemed to cut her very soul.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Through the vicar&#8217;s counseling, Addy and Adam manage to reconcile and even find love, with each other. \u00a0I adore this book so much, I even cut a trailer for it.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1qdoSCuvcEo?rel=0\" height=\"315\" width=\"420\" allowfullscreen=\"\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>So, if you are looking for a good Regency to curl up with try this old Zebra Regency Romance, <i>A Proper Marriage<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p id=\"rop\"><small>Originally posted 2013-12-23 10:00:00. <\/small><\/p><div id=\"vanes-3349793468\" class=\"vanes-after-content vanes-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-top: 3px;margin-right: 3px;margin-bottom: 3px;margin-left: 3px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?fit=1080%2C1350&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Listen to the Write of Passage Weekly Podcast\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?w=1080&ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?resize=240%2C300&ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?resize=819%2C1024&ssl=1 819w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/vanessariley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SubstackAd.png?resize=768%2C960&ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" width=\"540\" height=\"675\"   \/><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was introduced to Modern Regencies, you know the ones written by after Austen, Heyer and Veryan while in college. Nothing I liked more than to unwind with a witty, Regency with everything on the line in the story after calculus. One novel, A Proper Marriage by Debbie Raleigh is one of my favorites. 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